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I believe the cause of this crisis and divide between men and women is Feminism. From feminism you get the war on patriarchy and genuine masculinity. You get sexual promiscuity and addiction to pornography. You get artificial contraception and abortion. You get a loss of interest in marriage and begetting children. When marriage does occur, it is frequently non-committal and ends in divorce with the resultant damage most effecting the children who are created. Those children are frequently psychologically damaged and they end up creating their own havoc. I could go on of course but my point is to understand the truly demonic nature of FEMINISM!

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🎯 1960’s style 2nd-wave “feminism” was imposed upon us, top-down, by our sociopathic Ruling Class. It is the Western analogue to the Soviet style and the Red Chinese style of ‘androgynism.’ In both of these androgynistic social engineering governance techniques, the purpose was the same. The methodology/ philosophy was different, but the purpose was the same: to transfer family power to the State 😡

In both cases, the Western & capitalistic case and the Eastern & communistic case, androgynism is one of the sociopathic Ruling Class’s ‘solutions’ to the perpetual Industrial Revolution ‘crisis’ of ‘overproduction;’ our machines were making life too good for us workin’ stiffs 😡. They indentured our women to full-time employment outside the home, and they indoctrinate our children in 9 to 5 orphanages (compulsory schooling).

They told us it was a victory for women, but - simple math here! - the cost of living was simply recalibrated to a double-median household income 😡 That’s a victory for the Owner Class, not for the Workers 😡 They get two workers for the price of one.

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I met my future Japanese wife in France in university in ‘94. I had (& still have) no particular interest in the Orient, and really I could’ve ended up marrying a woman of any ethnic background. There were so many girls chasing me that school year that:

1) I didn’t know who they all were, and

2) I didn’t know how they knew who I was 😂

Spoiler alert: I was sexually intimate with only one of them, my wife.

But it could’ve been any race, color, or creed; Mother Nature was running the show: East Asian, South Asian, African, European, Latin & South American - or maybe even a girl from the good ol’ US of A?!

At the time I wondered why all these foreign girls at my language school weren’t dating French boys. Today, age 51, I understand that there was a shortage of eligible bachelors who’d be interested in (and interesting to) foreign girls 😂 There were two universities in that French city: one was Catholic, majority female students, and the boys were Good Boys & marriage minded - booooring 😂 The other university was an engineering school, overwhelmingly male student population, but they were Good Boys too & doing homework every night plus on the weekends - boooooring 😂

Lucky me 👍🙂❤️

Anyway, after some time together in the US & Japan, and after ten years of having children in the US, in 2014 (ten years ago) & at my suggestion I led my family back to my wife’s native metro region.

I’m not exaggerating here: My principal motivation was for our children’s future marriages. My wife & I are secular (not religious) “anti-feminists,” and we didn’t see a happy future for our three sons in marriage in the USA - or anywhere else in the West. And even though US socioeconomics clearly favored our daughter, we feared her future husband would never be able to support a housewife & children on his own salary. So, probably her children, too, would be raised in a double-income household.

Somehow, 1960’s style 2nd-wave “feminism” never caught on here in Japan; the cost of living is still calibrated to a single-bread winner household, and the education system & socioeconomics broadly are still calibrated to a wife & homemaker.

Plan B, if Japanese women do someday abdicate their womanly duties in favor of the processed foods lifestyle & financial “independence” & small family size, then I’ll recommend that my sons import Filipino wives.

The answer - thanks for reading this far 👍🙂 - is that in the Western Battle of the Sexes, only the sociopathic Ruling Class can claim victory, and the children continue to be the biggest losers.

The social ills are compounded generation after generation. Romance, sex, marriage, childrearing, the cost of living, extended family relationships - literally Societal Breakdown 😡 - are so much worse today than when my father shocked me up ‘n’ out of my mainstream media indoctrination & the education system indoctrination in the 1960’s style 2nd wave “feminism.”

He said, “America is a female-dominated & man-hating socioeconomic system.”

I was 20. It was 1993. I’d never heard anyone say anything like that.

Today, I forsake my homeland & I forsake the whole rest of the Anglosphere & the whole rest of the Western “feminist” world because I want my children to be happy in marriage, & to eat only Real Food cooked from scratch, & to make lots of grandchildren 👍🙂❤️

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Gerald, can we be your neighbors? This was the best comment ever.

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I started talking to complete strangers on Facebook in spring 2020 because my f2f real life friends & family stopped talking to me because of the c19 ‘mass formation psychosis.’

I thumb type conversations on my iPad to any kind of Counter Cultural Brains that I can find (because I’m self-employed I have the time to do so, and because we’re largely surrounded by indoctrinated people, including here in Japan, I am highly motivated to do so). This means women, too, whom I normally wouldn’t be chit chatting with. Gays, too. And churchgoers. And Flyover Land patriots, and the Constitutionalists, and the real salt of the earth types, including the very provincial & insular. Brains come in all Walks of Life.

2020 Plandemic mass hysteria revealed that the majority of the population lack all of the following redeeming qualities; they don’t benefit from even a single one:

1) proficiency in math & science,

2) earnest religious beliefs (e.g. not even the king is above the law),

3) genuine comprehension of the US Bill of Rights; genuine appreciation of this **miracle** of the Western experiment in socioeconomic liberalism, from Renaissance & Enlightenment, to the US Bill of Rights & French Revolutionary concepts of human rights, on through to the 19th century 1st IR vision of mechanized labor + mechanized transportation + instantaneous mass communications rendering kings equal to servants in the Here ‘n’ Now, not just in the eyes of God, and

4) a functioning **intuition.**

The brainwashed sheeple don’t possess even a single one of those redeeming qualities (1-4), same today as during WW2 Europe’s ‘mass formation psychosis’ 😡, any one of which would’ve kept them thinking straight, rational men of integrity.

Anyway, briefly that’s who I am. Plus, my wife makes me a better man than I ever would’ve been without her. Yes, I would be grateful to continue the conversation with you here in public, or at this email address: tucsongardening@gmail.com

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I'm wondering if the divide between the sexes is being pushed (or taken advantage of) by certain globalist influencers. I also wonder if this is a natural consequence of our overcrowded, over stressed, digitally influenced lifestyle. Or it might have something to do with the educational system pushing rainbow transgender ideology. But I have to be careful because this issue is so charged with polarized and highly emotional viewpoints that civil communication is not possible. So many young people are being indoctrinated by school, media, peer pressure, and marketing that it's tough to find common ground in our gender roles and expectations, and it's hard to break through to common sense.

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Well said!!

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Okay, so I have to lose weight, get better looking, consider what men want and deliver it, make them a meal (because that's a nice thing to do) recognise that teaching, nursing, and other caring professions are pointless, because they're not important because they don't contribute to the economy and watch out for mainstream media hairdos.

Got it.

My tips... finish a bloody sentence, and get the facts ... the 4 Bs "no dating, no sex, no marriage and no kindness"???

Give. Me. A. F....Break.

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Correct

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Do you have any idea how pompous you sound?

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Yes.

Do you have any idea how entitled you sound?

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My work here is done!

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